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Three Wishes
Testimony of Kalvin Drake
at First Unitarian Congregation of Toronto
Sunday, October 23, 2005

 

Good Morning!  My name is Kalvin Drake, and I've been asked this morning to give a testimony as part of the Dare to Dream initiative – by sharing with you my responses to the Dare to Dream questionnaire that, hopefully, each of you have had a chance to complete in one of the workshops.  If you haven't, I understand that there's another workshop during the 2nd service and next week.  Failing that, you can complete the form on our website.

Of the three questions we are asked to answer, I found the third the most enticing:  "If I had a magic wand and had three wishes to heighten the health and vitality of our congregation, what would they be?"

I found that in answering this question, I ended up answering the other two questions about what I valued most about this congregation.  I also found that my responses reflected not only my aspirations for this congregation, but also for the Canadian movement as a whole.

My three wishes?  Well, actually, all my three wishes are related.  They're all about getting us noticed and increasing the role that Unitarian Universalism plays in people's lives and in Canadian society at large.  And they all stem from one playful notion…

If we want to get noticed, what if we became religious fundamentalists... Hey, why not?  Everyone else seems to be doing it!

UU fundamentalists!  Isn't that a bit of - or rather a lot of - an oxymoron?  After all, we associate religious fundamentalism with bigotry, intolerance and a divinely guided conviction that there is only one way to salvation.

Yet I believe that, ironically, by unabashedly proclaiming the fundamentals of Unitarianism and Universalism, we offer the world a loving, tolerant and inclusive alternative to those other fundamentalisms we read about every day in our newspapers.

So my first wish is that we entertain the notion of proclaiming ourselves as Unitarian fundamentalists.

As Unitarians, we are invited to focus on Unity – to identify those values and aspirations we hold in common.  If we are to present a strong and united liberal alternative to the world, we must find a way to communicate a clear and concise definition of who we are and what we offer.

It means each of us voluntarily walking our individual religious and philosophical paths under one Unitarian banner.  To achieve this, we must each be sufficiently confident in our individual search for truth and meaning that we don't always feel the need to have to defend our individuality.  As proud Canadians we do not feel threatened by raising the flag of the United Nations or the Olympics above our national flag.   May we then, as free-thinking individualists, not feel threatened by raising our  Unitarian flag high and letting it fly boldly in the winds that ravage this world.

If my first wish is to entertain the notion of being Unitarian fundamentalists, my second wish is, of course, to entertain the notion of being Universalist fundamentalists.

I'm sure most if not all of you know that Universalism started as a Christian denomination characterized by its belief in the universal salvation of all souls.  As Universalists in the 21st century, we might look towards a post-Christian reinterpretation of salvation that testifies that every single human being can enter into communion with that underlying unity of all of existence – that we may call God, Goddess, Tao or Cosmos.

This is not just a lofty philosophical notion.  A fundamentalist Universalist congregation takes on the responsibility for helping each and every member of its community – and the wider world community – to attain a profound depth of spiritual insight and experience.  This is not a congregation where people simply come to meet on a Sunday morning.  This is a congregation where the deepest yearnings of our hearts are opened and shouted from the rooftop!  This is a congregation where our deepest fears, our losses, our wounds are exposed… a congregation in which each one of us is emotionally naked and vulnerable.  It is a congregation of supreme honesty and unconditional acceptance. 

Our congregation is currently going through a period of intense self-questioning.  I hope this doesn't become self-doubt.  My third wish is that we come to believe that, to get where we want to get to as a Congregation, we don't need three wishes!  We don't need more members, a new Minister or anything else!  Sure things could be easier, perhaps better.  But do we need them to feel like we're "OK"?  For if we say we need something else – something more -  then are we not saying that what we have today isn't quite "good enough"?  I beg to differ…

Perhaps we have an opportunity to pause and reflect on the abundance we already have within this congregation.  For to answer the questions about what I value most  –  I find the answer is right here in this room.  On so many occasions I have witnessed the overwhelming wisdom and generosity of this congregation.  We have the skills - the people and the financial resources to make miracles happen.  In fact, we already do.

Thank you for being my three wishes!

 
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